492. How To Get Everything You Always Want - Part 1

On this episode, Nellie emphasizes the importance of adopting a mindset of abundance and persistence in achieving one's desires. She shares a personal story of wanting to attend a Taylor Swift concert, initially giving up due to perceived financial limitations, but later successfully manifesting the resources to secure four tickets within 30 days. Nellie advises listeners to brainstorm their desires, prioritize them from easiest to most challenging, and plan the "how" for each. She stresses the power of not giving up and the value of accountability and support. The episode concludes with a promotion for Leanne's unique opportunity for busy moms and an invitation to work with the speaker for further guidance.

We will touch on:

• Mindset of Abundance
• Introduction to Leanne's Opportunity
• The Power of Persistence
• Steps to Achieving Desires
• The Role of Accountability and Support

Let's Take Some Action:

• Make a list of everything you want, prioritizing from easiest to most challenging.
• For each item on the list, brainstorm the specific steps or "how" to make it happen.
• Consider working with the The Wealthy Mama Movement to help with the "how" of achieving your desires.

Shout out to Leigh Anne Pereira for sponsoring this episode

Transcript

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Music. Welcome back to the wake up and be wealthy show. Don't forget to give us a five star review where you're listening share this episode with somebody that you love and somebody that you want to see get everything that they want. I am beyond excited about this episode, because I get everything I want, like, I'm not even going to dance around it. I'm not even going to pretend like I get everything I want. I always have, I always will. And guess what? So can you when I teach you this and when you implement it? So we're going to just start with the vibe of I get everything I want. Say it with me. I get everything that I want, feel that in your body. Now, some excitement may show up, some resistance may show up, a little bit of both. Something else may show up, but you just starting to anchor it in your body. Of I get everything that I want. I get everything I want. I get everything that I want. Is going to start to shift your energy into getting everything that you want. We have got to get you out of the lack energy, the lack mindset, the I live paycheck to paycheck. I am broke, I can't have that. I can't afford that. That's not in the budget. Those things may be true, but you're anchoring those things into your reality, into your body, into your nervous system. So therefore you're continuing to anchor it that you're you'll continue to be in it. So even though those things could be true. Your brain only knows what you tell it, so you can still be financially responsible and step into I get everything that I want, and I'm going to teach you the how, so you actually can get everything that you want and do it with ease, flow and fun. So if that sounds good to you, then this is the perfect episode for you. Shout out to my girl, Leanne. She is one of my mastermind students. I'm pretty sure we were separated at birth, but she is just such a bright light wanting to support moms. She's got the most amazing, unique opportunity that busy moms, I think, are going to love. So make sure you give her a follow on Facebook. Say hi to her. She can give you all the information of what she's doing, how she's doing it, but it's so unique that I can't even like fully explain it in a quick episode. But it is perfect for a busy mom that wants to make extra money, and it is hugely just so cool and so powerful and so interesting. So if you're nosy, reach out to Leanne, say hi, tell her that I sent you. And let's get into this exercise. So you're going to want a pen and paper, okay, and you're going to want to write down everything that you want. Now there's, there's a few parts to this exercise. You'll just want to first brain dump, okay, you're going to want to brain dump everything that you want. And you're just going to want to see what shows up. We're not worried about a certain order. We're not worried about the how right now, we're not worried about anything besides, what do you want? This is like the notebook episode, not the notebook episode, but the the part in the notebook where he goes, What do you want? And she's like, it's not that simple, right now, in your current reality, that's probably what you feel like but if there's anything that I know to be true is when a woman puts her mind to something, anything is possible. She is completely unstoppable. So when we know that to be true, what is stopping you is your mind, your brain, you you you give up too quickly. I'll give you a prime example, back in February, this of this year. Okay, I'm really good at doing this, but I also am still human, and I have human moments, right? So back in February, I have the desire, the want to go to the Taylor Swift concert. I've already been in to the eras concert, but I wanted to go again, right? And what did I do? I took a little bit of action, because I know that that's important. I looked at the ticket prices, which is hilarious, because they were high, but they weren't as high as they are now. And I was like, oh, too expensive. And I immediately shut down the want. I didn't pursue it. I didn't give it any more attention. This is happening so often for so many women. Again, I'm human. I know how to do this, but I still catch myself. So now let me fast forward. Forward to this past August, six months later, not even six months, like a little less than six months. I The the desire of wanting to go to the Taylor Swift concert showed up again, and I was upset with myself, because I'm like, damn it, you've wasted five months, right? But I couldn't stop thinking about it. And so what was different about this way of being was not giving up too quickly. Within 30 days, I didn't manifest just one ticket. I didn't manifest just two tickets. I fucking created the resources for four tickets in under 30 days, which was $11,500 anything is fucking possible when you put your mind to it, I don't care what's in your bank account right now. I don't care what your energy is like right now. I don't care what is happening right now, because you have the power to change it on day one of that desire, I couldn't make it happen financially, like responsibly, like I was, like, I'm not going to drain my savings. Like that doesn't make sense, right? Like I needed to create, I wanted to create new resources to make that possible, and for me to feel good about it in my nervous system, again, you don't have to do anything that is outside of your comfort zone. You don't have to do anything that feels like icky to you, but we do get to expand your comfort zone and give it your best shot. So the biggest difference in this story is I fucking saw it through. I didn't give up. I enrolled accountability, I enrolled support, and I did not stop. I was relentless. I I tried so many different ways, and finally, something worked. This type of energy is available to anyone that is willing to put in the effort to put in the energy. I still had challenges during this time. I still had, oh my gosh, what if it doesn't happen during this time, the fear is going to be there, the obstacles are going to be there, the challenges are going to be there. But when you are in the mindset of, I am not going to stop until I see this through. I will try everything possible to make it happen. You find the way, you find the path. And this can happen in the smallest little thing that you want to the biggest thing that you want. Now the bigger things might be a little bit of more energy and effort. So what you're going to want to do is first, brain stump, brain dump, everything that you desire, Okay, step number two is that then you're going to put it in order. Okay, in order. And the order that I want you to do is easiest to most challenging of you having it, okay? So I literally have my own list. I am a fucking student first. That's why I know my shit works when you work it. So let's work it. It works. Why would I waste my time talking to you like I'm not getting paid for doing this, right? Like this is a labor of love. The podcast is a labor of love, and I can't help myself but share because I want more women making more money and feeling good doing it, but you've gotta, you've gotta wake the fuck up. You've gotta do your part and stop giving up. I wish somebody like, I wish I would have saw a video like this back in February and said, don't like, don't give up, right? Like, do not give up. You're better than that, right? So I had a human moment, but I had no wake up call. I had no one saying, like, girlfriend, stop, right? I had a lot of inner work to do. I'm a whole different human than I was even back in February, and therefore my results are different, but I'm still in the same house. I drive the same car. This is why I know that so much can happen so fast, when you stop giving up, when you allow yourself to play in the manifestation process and really put your mind to it right, like really go all in and and put in the energy and the effort. Okay? So we're going to put it in order from easiest, okay, that is, that's not how you spell easiest. There we go. Easiest, okay, to most challenging, okay, my alarms going off. I have another I have a call here in a couple minutes. Okay, so most challenging, challenging. Okay, all right, so you're gonna put it from easiest to most challenging. So for example, the number one on my current list was a new wallet I'm about to go into the next phase of the wealthy mama. Mama movement. And one big thing that I love to do is a new wallet. It just sets the tone for, like, the next level. So I asked myself, okay, what wallet do I want? And then I found the most adorable Hello Kitty wallet. I can't wait to show it to you, and I bought it this morning. So that was my number one, because it's easy, right? We want to get that momentum going. So the things at the top of your list, when you put it in order, should feel very within reach. Okay, now the things at the bottom of my list, okay, we're gonna be like real. I've never told this to I don't think anyone besides my husband. I've been saving up for a little bit of a mommy makeover. Okay? And the reason being is my body has been through so much, and it's not that I need the mommy makeover. It's because I want the mommy makeover I have, like the most tiny little speed bumps and they they've been through a lot, okay? We're just, we're just gonna put it out there. I don't care what anyone else thinks. It's my body, my choice, and so I'm saving up for it. So that's towards the bottom of my list, not because it feels challenging, but it's just going to take a minute, right? Like, I'm consistently saving for it, but it's going to, it's going to, it's going to take a minute to reach that goal. Okay. So the the secret sauce before I go, I don't want to leave you hanging. Okay, this is really where I come into play, because this is my, this is my zone of genius. Okay, so step number three is then we do get into the how, okay, so for each item, okay? On your list, you're going to start to brain dump the how. We're not going to wait, okay. So on my list, you see the pink, that's the how. Okay, so some of them are easy as find the wallet and buy the wallet. Okay, I have on here. I want some new clothes, not only for me, but the kids. So it's find the clothes and buy the clothes. So some of them will be as easy as that, but when we go down here, let's go to something else. Okay, I'm working on getting hair extensions. My hair needs to be first down to my shoulders. So I've already had a consultation, okay? I've already gotten pricing. Already have pictures of what I want. This is what I'm talking about, right? So, and then I'll, I'll continue to save money for the hair extensions. So although it's a little bit in the future, I'm not waiting to plan and prepare to create the cash to create what I need to do. And this is so helpful, because the energy of you being in what you want is already happening. I did this with Taylor Swift part two. Okay, I did this when we were working on Taylor Swift. I started to think about what I was going to wear. I was looking at ticket prices. I was brainstorming how we could make it happen. Sarah and I were talking every single day. This is the stuff that I'm talking about. This is what I'm really, really good at. Okay, so I'll come back for a part two and another episode. But right now, I just want you to start thinking about step number one and step number two. You can start to brainstorm number three, but work with me. Hire me. This is what I'm good at. Okay, the how is what I'm good at. So I have to go talk to a client. I love you so much. Give us a five star review. Thank you, Leanne for sponsoring this episode. Every woman deserves to get everything that she wants. Go do your part.